Why Hot Babes Have Bad Personalities
If you’re a single guy you probably understand the paradox of finding an attractive woman who is also intelligent and has a good personality.
That is: attractive women usually have poor personalities.
Also: unattractive women sometimes have very good personalities.
To save time, please add “usually” or “for the most part” to most statements below. I don’t want to hear comments like “well I’m hot and smart!” or “my wife/girlfriend/sister…”
I. Introduction
If personality is a sign of intelligence, the argument could be made that those with good looks have used up all their genetic currency and therefore don’t have much left for other endeavors. I tend to see personality as more of a process of trial and error. This trial and error is the friction that turns someone with a bad personality into someone with a good personality.
You’re not born with personality.
Use the example of friction and heat involved in turning a piece of coal (dullard) into a diamond (good personality).
The problem with goodlooking women is that this process never happens because if a hot girl (of any age) says something or makes a joke, our response is often tempered by the fact that they’re hot.
Example:
Ugly Chick: I sort of enjoy American Idol, it’s junk food but entertaining nonetheless.
You: American Idol is a mockery of music and culture. We’re a culture defined by our least refined. Don’t think you can just watch that kind of stupidity and walk away unscathed, that kind of cheese seeps in whether you want it to or not.
Hot Babe: I just love American Idol.
You: Yeah, it’s a pretty good show.
If someone does challenge a hot girl’s sensibilities, they will probably disregard it because it’s probably coming from someone ugly.
You, dear reader, are probably ugly, and you are apart of the problem.
Where most people try to cultivate their personality by engaging in enriching activities, reading books, self-criticism and development, and seeking to place themselves in the company of interesting people, the goodlooking chick just works to make herself more physically attractive.
Where the ugly girl is at home reading the classics, likely getting uglier, the hot girl is at the mall getting all the latest fashions and at the beach tanning, getting hotter.
So the target for both of them moves further away.
II. Abberations
“Sir, not all ugly women have good personalities”.
You’re right. There is also the marginally attractive woman who thinks she is attractive and does not need to develop a personality. These are the most annoying because again, we value both looks and personality/intelligence but have hitleresque disdain for someone who has neither. Especially those who have neither and think they have both.
See: The Marginally Attractive Girl Who Thinks Being Boisterous Is A Personality
III. Conclusion
Like with everything else in life, it’s later than you think. Also, even Hot Babes are capable of pattern recognition.
Sooner or later, the hot babe (hereafter HB) or Marginally Attractive (MA) will get tired of being dumped for uglier but more interesting women. They will realize that while they are attractive, for some reason nobody keeps them around for very long.
This is why you will often find women in their late 20’s to 40’s who suddenly are trying to take the “fast-track” to personality.
This usually includes one of the following:
- goofy religious views
- silly spirituality
- crazy politics
- assorted esoterica
- Burning Man Attendance
We all know the 35 year old former babe whose looks are waning who suddenly claims to be a Buddhist or yoga fanatic, and wants to make you listen to her talk unintelligently about it.
Or the 30’s twit who wasted so many years in the dance clubs thinks to herself “ok I need to make something of this”, so she buys some Technics and subscribes to BPM magazine and suddenly thinks she’s a cool, urban DJ type. Go to the Winter Music Conference, its crawling with em.
The list goes on and on. Feel free to comment with other examples and stories about your own trials and tribulations.
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hey andy, andy here. Oh man i’ve been through hell and back with ugly babes and also hot babes.
From Andy
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You are right, you really aren’t marketable.
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If you are ever in the market for an unattractive gal with little or no personality, hit me up.
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Dude… how deeply do you and the other 4-ish Andies [Andys?] think about this stuff?
It did make me laugh a bit about the comparison between conversations with the UC and the HC. Because it’s true, man… (dramatic pause) because it’s true.
LOL take ‘er easy!
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When I am nauseated at bars, those “hot chicks” take me over the edge and that’s when I barf it all up.
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Which category does your mom fall into ?
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whose mom?
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I’m not touching this one.
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I like being an ugly reader.
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I love hot girls
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Also, Andy + Hot= Oil + Water
Andy + Hanky= Love- Normalcy
Me + Wine= Drunky McDrunk
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Yeah, I love hot girls too.
When I’m drunk.
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you are so completely correct, sir.
no one ever contradicts “hot chicks” or tells them that they’re wrong.
then, as you said, when their looks begin to fade, they are fucked because they are ultra cunty with no reason.
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If I had to choose between the hot chick with no personality/intelligence and the ugly chick with a great personality/intelligence… I would choose the former. I can always surround myself with lots of highly intelligent male friends with great personalities to satisfy those needs. At least I will still be f-ing a hot chick!
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@Such As, i think its this mentality that keeps hot chicks as dumb as they are. I’m not saying its your fault, but i’d be willing to bet you don’t pull that much wool with a sentence like this:
“At least I will still be f-ing a hot chick!”
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[...] but I would be lost without her for this list. I also referenced her in an earlier Opus titled: Why Hot Babes Have Poor Personalities near the aging electronic music dolts [...]
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From MSN:
Bubbles…..dam rights. says:
do you bring alot of girls there? lol
caleb says:
no, usually just one at a time
caleb says:
lol
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pwnd.
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excellent comments voice. Please stick around.
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I agree completely – I’m totally more apt to let stupidity slide if the girl looks good enough.
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yea, after all u cant fuk a personality
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You’re just bitter because you were rejected by all the hot babes you ever met.
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You left the email address yousuck@chauvanist.com
Anyhow, this post doesn’t bash women, just ones with bad personalities (who are often hot). If you’re mad because your personality is bad that’s not really my fault for pointing it out.
Actually i’ve crushed some pretty good looking tail in my day…
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I see that you have mentioned burning man as a ‘fast track’ to personality. Ofcourse to attend burning man you almost indefinetly need to know and be prepared for such a fest, i dont think an airhead would be able to cope with such!
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Nox, the problem is a hot airhead does not have to “cope with such” because there will invariably be numerous horny assholes who will help her along.
Did you read one thing that I wrote?
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Hmmmm..this article describes the trend of hot babes having poor personalities but doesn’t explain why. It does however drive readers to justify it on their own why they prefer hot babes, or why they accept poor personalities from hot babes. I am not convinced.
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Women with great genetics are a part of the picture. For some reason, probably swim team years, women with pendulous breasts and sand dollar crowners make a big impression, whereas most guys seem to like them firm. I used to say, “If you can hold two or more pencils under there, you pass.” I’m a deeply spiritual person.
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Maybe the standard ideal of what is beautiful includes having a shockingly low IQ. Or maybe it is only the dim-witted women that have low enough self esteem to alter their natural form in order to achieve that stereotypically homogenous “hot chick” appearance. There are plenty of beautiful, talented, intelligent women, and if you can’t find them you’re just too shallow to meet their standards.
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that could be very true, some times if you can argue or prove a point, and stand up for yourself intelligently, it puts some people in their place, and there are some guys who can’t handle that. beauty gets far more promoted and rewarded, even as children, than intelligence does.
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I have only met one girl with both good looks and personality with the added bonus of intelligence, she was vietnamese.
But the general rule is Hot Girl= Idiot.
I love the way men are called assholes by women for looking for physical specifics but women are 10 times worse.
You could be a great guy, know your stuff when it comes to the bedroom and possibly the most caring/loving guy on the planet but a girl will turn you down due to acne scars.
Women are fickle and vain but god I love em, though its scary when your vanity extends to other people.
lol.
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meh, i know a girl who went from average to playboy model, and she pretty much forfeited her soul. but funny post, i’ll try to keep this in mind so i dont get too ugly reading those classics
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Its SO TRUE!
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You have the problem mapped out correctly Andy, but the solution is all wrong. The trick is finding someone in their early 20′s with “ugly duckling syndrome”. She was ugly 95% of her life, so she was forced to develop a personality. She is now cute but has no idea. I happened upon one of these gems a couple years back.
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Hunter, you’re absolutely right. But you need the ugly duckling who still had integrity and self esteem because if they didn’t then they probably also had their heart (and beaver) broken by every shithead in their town. It sucks when a really cool girl is also a slut, although that happens quite often. I know this because i’ve seen many sluts in my day.
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Another thing that really pisses me off is you find a hot girl, shes also got a great personality but she drinks but thinks shes too good to smoke a fucking joint. I mean shit it just loosens things up and gets you into party mode. Its not like I’m a fucking date rapist. Being a stoner Its hard to find a nice girl that just wants to party and get fucked up but knows when to be serious. I also like to avoid that fucking dirty look some stoners have. If I don’t smell like bud I smell like lynx Brazilian orange. It seems though that if you happen to met a half decent girl who likes a smoke she’s usually sweet as. I don’t know what it is they just seem less stuck up and more forward to me, even more adventurous but thats just what I like. Generally the I prefer the women I meet on the street or in house parties or socials (which is why I cannot wait for the summer) I may be misanthropic but I’m still a sucker for a curvy woman who can down a beer and pretty much does what the fuck she likes. To many woman speak in cryptic languages and seem to be fluent in sign language, they also seem way to worried what others think. Its amazing some of the girls you can meet stoned on the tube on your way back from camden. If you find a girl that has all three of the aforementioned then you can die happy.
I love the kind of girl who I turn around to after rolling a blunt and shes already got two beers from the freezer. More women need to tell you what they want like Lou ( coolest girl I ever met)
Being a stoner can make things hard with normal women you just gotta find the right kinda girl, women also make great dealers. I remember going round grabbing a baggie and she was like stay a while and I figured fuck it seeing as there is nothing else to do, basically I got double what I paid for. I suppose to summarize I like a girl who is fun, hot and classy but will still say fuck me. (appologies for the vulgarity its just the best way I can describe it) Wow this is a novel.
Misanthropist.
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You sound like my soulmate, LOL.
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A hot blond who is also smart (i.e. who digs me)? No such animal. She’s either Hot, or Blond, or Smart. Hey, I’ll take any two! Hot and smart, or Blond and smart. I’ve been looking. They’re hard to find, I’m telling you. You know, I could probably settle for her just being smart. YES, just give me smart, that’d be okay. But…not real Mensa kinda smart. Crazy smart, weird. No. C+/B- kinda smart would be good enough. HELL! This point, I don’t care if she ever went to school…
CorneliusButterfield.com
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ok well, i’ve only had 4 relationships in my 30 years of existence. why? i intimidate people (their words, not mine) just by merely living my life as a woman who is physically attractive AND also intelligent. i don’t agree that men want this type of woman. rarely am i approached, and when i am, people just move on to an easier target. dating a woman with this “lethal combination” is difficult. most men don’t want to feel inferior, whether it comes to the bedroom or the classroom, so they play it safe with bimbos who can’t carry a conversation, or bookworms whom nobody will invite out for drinks anyways. being seen with someone is all about upholding a sense of unspoken status. the inaccessible, confident woman is just as looked down upon as the fat man with no job, and a nasty porn collection.
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One thing you might have missed in your analysis is the ‘personality’ part. If you’re “intimidating”, and you go on blogs talking about your “lethal combination”, perhaps your problem is that you have a superiority complex and it shows? “Rarely approached” seems weird (unless you’re really REALLY HOT), since it’s hard to tell if someone’s smart without talking to them. I’m guessing if you relaxed with the icy glare, you’d be doing a lot better. Also, try not to mention your PHD in the first few sentences. Or maybe I misinterpreted what you wrote and you really feel like a fat man with no job and a nasty porn collection? In that case I feel your pain; Good luck.
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As a highly intelligent man, I have to disagree with your rebuttal. Intelligence and considering yourself superior to another are really not the same thing. Regrettably, people who feel inadequate or less comfortable with their own intelligence
often feel as though this were the case.
By way of example: I used to work for a company that we’ll leave unnamed. It was a financial institution and full of different sorts of persons, with a fairly strong concentration of intelligent persons (do you really want untempered idiocy managing your assets?). With time, certain ones of these intelligent persons rose to the top of the food chain and oppressed the rest of everyone. Such is often the case with the gifted: they don’t appreciate that it’s a gift. Now naturally the oppressed resented this. However, rather than looking at what caused these smart persons to be so nasty to them (and wrongfully so), they built an internal
worldview that equated superior intelligence with mean people. Understandable and unfortunate.
Now examine a nice person. This person helps with your problems, offers to share the work in the department, and even suggests ways of getting things done
more efficiently (thereby leaving more time for random department parties, yay!). The catch is, this “nice person” is also intelligent. Therefore, this niceness is necessarily just a ploy. It’s impossible that they want anything other than to cleverly sneak past your defenses and then oppress you just as has been done before. Contrast this with the largely unattractive cat lady who has been there for 30 (hyperbole) years, appreciates romance novels and laughs at nearly everything. The catch is, she’s been there for such a long time, she really knows what she’s doing. You accept her help because she’s knowledgeable enough to be right without being smart enough to threaten you.
Do you see the problem? Intelligence is a basis for discrimination. People don’t trust the smart ones because they fear being outwitted and then degraded. They label themselves comparatively less intelligent and blame it on the more intelligent person (rather than the person who made them originally feel like crap). Being smart and socially accepted is really hard work. Please don’t minimize the account of the smart lady commentator.
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This can certainly apply to males as well. Problem is, I live in a college town. So it is sort of hard to separate the stupid because of age from the just that damn stupids… and every once in awhile a pretentious dick mixes in with the intelligent ones…
But it is very true. The pretty cutie on the pool ball team can go “teehee oops!” when she can’t quit make it into the pocket…but if the heavy heifer ucko misses, it is usually not at all waved off as insignificant.
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Sorry, but I believe in healthy minds, healthy bodies. Ugly women have their own personality problems. I’ll take the issues that come with dating a hot chick over an marginally attractive woman who finds sleeping around an acceptable way to deal with her validation issues.
Jen makes a point, and it only seems to validate my personal theory that attractive intelligent women have no clue how to flirt like normal people.
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Looking for appearances is the last thing you want to look for anyways and yeah personality is important but I truly blame the media for all of this, look around you beautiful women are advertise everywhere and we are subjected to all its bullshit
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I must say that i’ve come across plenty of women who are beautiful AND intelligent, Without UDS(“Ugly Duckling Syndrome”) that is. It seems to me that a lot of girls have mastered the technique of getting things out of others just by being girls(e.g.owning a pair of dirty pillows, being coy). While most of them are normal looking by societies’ standards, the best looking are so conditioned by the way other people interact with them that they do not realize they are naively using it as a crutch, beginning very early in life, essentially hindering their equipoise of mind and body. Don’t let that dismay you, though. I think there’s a good amount of them who are able to see through the way other people treat them and don’t want to be recognized in such a superficial way; They’re insulted when they realize certain people treat them special from the rest of the crowd when all they want is honest and fair scrutiny like everyone else. The process of learning is diverse in speed between individuals, and for some people, especially busty babes, have a natural craving for knowledge! Everyone is unique, just as their tastes’ are also unique.
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I like Jen’s comment. All men want that kind of woman but most are too stupid to realise it. I fail to be intimidated by that sort of thing if anything the fact that she is hot and not stupid is a turn on. Women need to be more forward in general and if a man is intimidated by that sort of thing he doesn’t know what he is missing.
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my penis ejaculated genetic waste, now boobiez haev fun?
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hey guy, you rock! Here’s another reason: form an evolutionary standpoint if all good broads were smart, then all we would have is a hot broad. Hence, ugly broads need to be smart to get laid. The same works for guys as well: you always see good lucking guys with OK gals. The guy thinks he’s too good all is life and keeps waiting for chicks to hit on him: the only one’s who do are the OK looking chicks or one’s that can’t get laid easy, ’cause they lack the personality to do otherwise; hence, they put up with his bs.
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awesome blog. keep it up
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I believe you have a point there. I am quite average and close to being ugly and men love me. The beautiful girls don’t see what the men see in me I am below average almost everywhere. But they love my personality, my jokes, my ethics and think I am a great drinking buddy.
I think they have made a point that men are physically attracted by the beauty, but really want more than that in a companion. Someone who is fun to be around, similar values, likes and lifestyle. I agree that the need for mental stimulation at some point in your life far exceeds anything else.
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“Honey do I look fat to you?” probably the most annoying question in the world.
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I like this site. someone finally expressed how I feel in a way that is most worded than my vocabulary.
I didn’t read most of any of the comments, but in a way the site is hypocritical. but, i guess if I was 100% misanthropic or I would be here.
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crap i ironicly messed this post up
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nevermind im not fully awake yet
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I can go fuck myself
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this is spam XD
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“A great social success is a pretty girl who plays her cards as carefully as if she were plain.” – F. Scott Fitzgerald
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I totally agree it’s quality and not quantity (asswise). But I preffer both. Boy, if a met a hottie at a club that would make my *ick rip through my jeans at first sight, latter found out she owned the whole club, the woke up the next morning in her Manhattan master suite emphanage, then had coffee & breakfast over a discussion on Goldman Sachs, how the NASDAQ performed yesterday, and the prognoses for the private sector with the 2010 financial reform … ahhhhhh Somene wake me up please
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truly the mind boggles how women in the West claim they are “free from the cave-mentality” and when push comes to shove the hottest women take beatings and their man tellin them how he wants to leave her for a few years to screw some bimbo’s and she still stays with him !! and some stupid broads eat till they get so puffy nowone really wants them anymore and then they become the bitches everyone plays and they wonder why ?? women are stupid and most of em deserve to die especially the sluts
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Hah! The ugly chick example is so true.
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Precise, well thought out but does not cover the real solution to the problem… An alcoholic has the almighty solution in that they really can’t tell how unattractive a woman is. So it is just as easy as finding one with a good personality and being happy.
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brilliant insight! i especially like part II.
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To this article, I would like to add one thing:
Men want hot women because hot women are a status symbol.
Sure, men like attractive women, but many men will fuck a large variety of types of women simply because fucking and companionship are often considered different than Being Seen In Public By Those You Want To Impress.
This is where the whole situation where a man has a hot trophy wife or girlfriend, but secretly fucks the less attractive (or even outright ugly) girl on the side (the only media-based example here coming to mind is “Clerks II” but there are many websites where people talk about having their lives ruined by a cheating spouse also usually involve a person fucking “beneath them”).
Women’s status in society is heavily influenced by their sexual attractiveness, but even more-so, their general appearance factors (such as soft features, big eyes, symmetrical features, attractive breasts, etc).
Even if a woman is not outright “hot hot HOT” she can often still carry the social currency of youth and the basic appearance features of nice teeth or symmetrical appearance that influences how well people will respond to her instinctively.
However, this goes hand in hand with how she “works” her personality around what she has to offer physically. Her body language, her clothing choices, and her ability to converse and to be interesting all factor into her long-term desirability, which is different than her fuckability.
Many women spend a lot of time trying to be fuckable, but fewer “naturally hot” women spend time learning how to be desirable and interesting.
I would also like to mention at this point that attractive women have a unique problem that her more dowdy counterparts do not; the simple FLOOD of choadish men who come knocking at her door. While less attractive (but desirable) women may end up meeting with interesting guys who are a good mixture of personality and fairly good looks, most SUPER HOT men and women tend to find themselves playing the fucking game from High School to their late 20′s, and then find themselves without a spouse, meaningful sexual relationship, and a lot of anger and frustration.
The truth of the matter is, most hot men want hot women to parade around with them, to brag about having in the sack-a trophy to use to rub their friend’s faces in so they can climb the ladder of Alpha maleness. However, most guys would much rather choose a less-physically attractive but more desirable (ie: more than looks brought to the table) woman to marry, have children with, and grow old with. Which is why so many “hot” celebrities end up divorcing left and right and have maybe one or two kids total, while the unwashed masses have a multitude of children coming out of the wood works.
That said, humans in the First World are generally far more attractive than humans have ever been in the history of humanity thanks to improved nutrition, low levels of disease, and a high level of focus on prenatal care and childhood nutrition/vitamins.
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Now that I’m 43 and still a hot chick-I can honestly say I haven’t had to try any of the 5 things you listed-goofy religious views, silly spirituality, etc.What I have decided to do is get a Masters Degree in English to override the felony record I got after receiving my Bachelor’s.While I may have been stupid for getting caught-I can honestly say it’s been a fun ride (at least the times I wasn’t in jail-that was just a breather.)
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misanthropy definitely has its place in the world. misogyny/misandry are wonderful social prejudices as well. i have met some girls who were both smart and enjoyable potential arm candy, but i realize they put themselves on a pedestal in which they think their judgmentalism supersedes all others. the idea that women can ascribe themselves the ‘princess’ moniker and expect that men (and this works in a vice versa sense as well, from what i have been able to observe) will fall over themselves and pamper them and give them the vacuous compliments they need to subsist, is tenuous at best. i subscribe to a pretty stringent misogynistic precept that all women deserve to be treated like crap, to weed out the ‘princesses’ whom their daddies lied to. i hate them, i hate their daddies, and i hate any man that feeds into their sense of entitlement. i go out of my way to make women open doors for me, i go out of my way to slam a door on a girl as she is obviously expecting me to keep the door open for her whilst she chit chats away on her cell phone avoiding the difficult task of recognizing a good deed as a fellow human. as far as i am concerned — fathers should tell their daughters they are not princesses – -they will never be princesses — and they can kiss that bullshit dream good bye. being a princess with a juicy label on the ass end of ones sweat pants doesnt give them the right to be demanding of others. am i bitter, sure, am i sick of people who cant even be remotely civil, hell yeah, am i going to continue to show my animus to those who have an air of superiority wafting in my general direction — fuck yeah. but, on the bright side – -with the dawn of simplified technologies — more and more of our population is electing to be more anti-social. so, in a manner of speaking, we may not have to deal with the voices grating against the very fabric of our hatred and loathing of these – too good for you– people. the more anti-social mannerisms evident in the younger generations, the more the older generations will actually find the united front of misanthropes to be more cordial and acceptable. btw, i didnt outline my rant — i just kinda went all over the board – -spewing random abhorrence any which way i could. hopefully some of this drivel finds a home.
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I support and don’t support your statement for two reasons: everyone’s different. But it creeps me out that I’ve actually met a good number of people that fits the description and it saddens me, ’cause people can do a lot more with their life.
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I don’t think it really has have that much to do with attractiveness. There are attractive and unattractive people with good personalities, and attractive and unattractive people with bad personalities.
Kindness, generosity, and charm can make up for a variety of other flaws, physical and mental, but basically what most people want is someone who has as much (or more!) to offer to their partner as they intend to take.
I personally have met as many ugly girls whose daddies spoiled them rotten as pretty ones…pretty girls just get more press because…well…at least they’re pretty.
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This blog outlines my own observations exactly.
Hot girls have been ogled at, gawked at, fought over, complimented by every one from their mother’s friends to classmates. It’s no surprise that many of them over-value their looks. Sooner or later though, everyone realizes as they get older, that looks aren’t “the end all, be all.”
The best girls are the ones that are pretty (not super hot), down-to-earth, and a good personality. Unfortunately, those girls get taken pretty quickly. And we’re left fighting for scraps! lol
My brother found the love of his life at 32 – she is pretty, and also a great person. So I’m hoping there’s still a chance for me to find a desirable girl. But it’s slim pickins out there. It’s just hard finding a great person. There’s just no other reality. It’s hard.
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Loved this article. I even dated the last example kind of (The late bloomed DJ girl), except she wasn’t a DJ but she wanted to catch up for all that partying she did throughout her teens and twenties as she grew up within rich family and had everything handed to her except for brains (failed numerous times she tried to do a little thing called college).
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